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Stinkin' Thinkin'

Thinking: The process of using one’s mind to consider or reason about something.

Stinkin’ Thinkin’: Though that is negative or has a negative effect upon you or those around you.

Ask, and it shall be given to you; seek, and you shall find; knock, and it shall be open unto you.
  Matthew 7:7

 

It’s not what goes into  your mouth that defiles you; you are defiled by the words that come out of your mouth.
  Matthew 15:11

 

And all things, whatsoever you shall ask in prayer, believing, you shall receive.
  Matthew 21:22

 

The kingdom of Heaven is within.
  Luke 17:21

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With the basis of the Bible verses above (there are even more in the Bible) you can see how the message is that  what you think about matters! What you think about can guide or effect how you feel. How you feel can effect your energy. Your energy can effect what you draw into your experience.

 

If you get one point from this blog it should be that negative thinking does NOT serve you in any way.

It is true that we are discerning creatures. Meaning, we are constantly looking at a situation and choosing HOW we perceive it. Positive. Negative. Good. Bad. Helpful. Not helpful.  It is in this observation of what is happening around you that the ASKING is born. If you see negative, you ASK for  positive. This can and does happen at the inner or sole level. That is the feeling you get when you see negative. Your emotions. That is an ASK.

A hazard of our perceiving and constant judgement of a situation is that we can get stuck in a pattern of not only seeing what we see as negative, but drawing more of it to us. 

This speaks to our CHOICE. We ultimately have Free Will and CHOOSE how we  perceive what we see. We CHOOSE how we react to what we experience. We CHOOSE what we incorporate into who we are and what part of that we take forward into our lives.

Thinking positively does not mean you deny that negative exists. It is more about what you choose to incorporate into your existence. 

This is how two people can look at the same situation and see two different things.

Getting and Staying Positive

Once while speaking with someone near and dear to me, I was trying to lift their spirits and help them see the situation in a more positive light. I will never forget the response. I was told: “I don’t want your Pollyanna view.” After recovering from the initial shock, I realized that we as people can get so caught up in or so drowned in negative feeling that we reject positive. It is just too far a leap to make.

Another example is when a positive person tries to point out the positive in a situation that is being talked about by someone who is framing it in the negative. Same as above, they don’t agree with your assessment or see the point in your view of the same situation.

So, getting in the positive frame of mind may take some practice for some. It does not have to happen all at once. In fact, it won’t. Start small. Start with one situation and look at it from many perspectives. See how the good or positive can be drawn from that one situation. Then expand it and put half a days worth of effort into it. Then a day and so on. String the feelings out from one situation into another. See how you mood changes. See how you more positive mood starts to effect your life and then those around you.

Think of it as a muscle that needs exercising. 

What we think about and how we choose to perceive it is a choice.

This choice can and will have a profound effect upon us and those around us.

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Heaven

Heaven: A state of being eternally in the presence of God
I don’t know of a better place to look for a description of Heaven than the Bible.

One exception: Near Death Experience (NDE) Author Eban Alexander’s book – Proof of Heaven

I don’t know of a better place to look for a description of Heaven than the Bible.

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Bible Verse: John 14:2-3

Heaven has mansions where we will dwell with Jesus.

Bible Verse: John 14:2-3

“In My Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself; that where I am, there you may be also”

Bible Verse: Revelation 7:15-17

“Therefore they are before the throne of God, and serve Him day and night in His temple. And He who sits on the throne will dwell among them. They shall neither hunger anymore nor thirst anymore; the sun shall not strike them, nor any heat; for the Lamb who is in the midst of the throne will shepherd them and lead them to living fountains of waters. And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes” 

“When we’ve been there ten thousand years, bright shining as the sun, we’ve no less days to sing God’s praise than when we’d first begun.”

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Bible Verse: Revelation 21:19-20

“The foundations of the wall of the city were adorned with all kinds of precious stones: the first foundation was jasper, the second sapphire, the third chalcedony, the fourth emerald, the fifth sardonyx, the sixth sardius, the seventh chrysolite, the eighth beryl, the ninth topaz, the tenth chrysoprase, the eleventh jacinth, and the twelfth amethyst”

Bible Verse: Revelation 21:21

“The twelve gates were twelve pearls: each individual gate was of one pearl. And the street of the city was pure gold, like transparent glass”

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It goes on to speak of Heaven not needing a sun or moon. In my mind this is because it is not if this realm, and does not operate by our physics. 

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Bible Verse: Revelation 21:23-25

“The city had no need of the sun or of the moon to shine in it, for the glory of God illuminated it. The Lamb is its light. And the nations of those who are saved shall walk in its light, and the kings of the earth bring their glory and honor into it. Its gates shall not be shut at all by day (there shall be no night there)”

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Heaven is not all one big nothingness without structure. And to me, it is not fiction either. This is where faith must work in your life. You have enough knowledge now, and there is enough information literally at your fingertips to help you discover enough to help you build a strong foundation of faith within you. Seek and you shall find. There is actually a wonderful structure with great purpose. Think of it as having layers. These layers are called dimensions. (see section on dimensions).

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Bible Verse: Matthew 7:7-8

“Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye. shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh. findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.”

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The bible speaks of dimensions using the words like breadth, length, height, and depth. 

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Bible Verse: Ephesians 3:18-19

“May have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.”

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A few examples of the use of the word Depth:

Matthew 13:5; Mark 4:5 – seed had no depth

Luke 5:14 – launch the boat into the deep (water)

Romans 8:39 – nor height nor depth … can separate us from the love of God

Romans 11:33 – O, the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God

1 Corinthians 2:10 – the Spirit searches the deep things of God

2 Corinthians 8:2 – their abundance of joy and their deep poverty overflowed in the wealth of their liberality

Revelation 2:24 – the depths of Satan

Each dimension has a different vibration and a different purpose in ultimately helping your Higher-Self continue to ascend. The more your light Being (Spirit or Higher Self) ascends (gains knowledge and advances spiritually) the higher advancement is made through the dimensions and ultimately toward God.

As you live your life on earth and learn and ascend, your Higher-Self (hopefully 🙂 advances in the dimensions. You might wonder about timing. Think of one of your lives on earth as being a blink of an eye to your Higher-Self. The average person blinks more than 23,000 times in one day. Can you imagine if each of those was a lifetime? 

Heaven is not on the same time as we are on Earth. Earth time is known as linear time. We think of everything as having a start and end time. Events are either in the past, present of future time. Heaven is more circular. Events happen all at the same time. Think of it as a wheel with spokes. You can travel to any point in time you wish. You are not going “back” in time, but simply going “to” that time on the wheel. This is one of the tougher concepts for our earth minds to understand.

Think of Heaven in connection with eternity. It is limitless. Things go on forever. Your energy never stops existing. You simply learn and grow (or ascend). There is far too much for us to even comprehend. There are billions of galaxies, planets, and dimensions. So much to learn and so many places to go. Free your mind. Relax and believe in the knowing that you are eternal.

Hear the Bible verse is speaking of the infinity of Heaven. Interestingly it also references heaven and higher heaven. Realms or dimensions perhaps?

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Bible Verse: Kings 8:27

“But will God indeed dwell on the earth? Behold, heaven and the highest heaven cannot contain You, how much less this house which I have built!”

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How about the word unsearchable here? To me, when referencing the size of something and calling it unsearchable means it is too vast to search.

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Bible Verse: Psalm 145:3

“Great is the Lord, and highly to be praised, And His greatness is unsearchable.”

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Is heaven Up? Not physically. It is higher in vibration. From my learning and in my view, the next dimension is actually vibrating at what you might considered to be about (3) feet off the ground. Some people think the difference between one dimension and the other is even less than that. They think it is just a fraction away from your nose. It is like changing the channel on a dial ever so slightly. But if you are not in the same vibration, it might as well me a galaxy away. 

Ever hear of Heaven on earth. Catching a glimpse of this can be exciting. The natural feeling of euphoria you might that is so rare, it happens only once in a lifetime… unless you actually work on your vibration, your outlook, and your inner-self.

Keep in mind that science usually is far behind spirituality. It is VERY hard to prove a lot of this. That is why people can feel the answer in their intuitive gut long before science can prove it. Slowly, however, scientist are embracing these concepts.

Much of this is first proposed as a theory and later proof is found. There are many concepts science supports today that they did not in the near past. Learn to trust your intuition and your own internal process of discovery. Keep your mind open and allowing.

Interesting Reading:

The Language of God, Francis Collins, among many accolades, Director of the National Institutes of Health and director of the Human Genome Project (one of histories biggest research projects), winner of the $1.3 million Templeton Prize.

Collins declares that he sees no incompatibility between science and religion. “The God of the Bible is also the God of the genome”, he wrote.

“He can be worshiped in the cathedral or in the laboratory.“ added Collins.

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